I did not know how to do it right, so first I did it wrong.One thing that prevents me from doing a lot of things is the fear of being wrong. Much more worse than doing something wrong is not doing it at all. Hindi obvious sa akin to dati: being wrong is a really good form of feedback. Kasi it hurts. Ngayon I try to use that feeling as a cue na I need to change something. Feedbacks are key things in getting better. Don’t pressure yourself to do it “right” the first time. If you got it wrong, celebrate! Because now you’ve got something specific to improve on.
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